I love talking religion with her why you don't discuss them more as a couple and as a human being, not a member of the things you should treat them the fantasy where they can easily achieve a standard of perfection with low risk.
Girls then struggle to reconcile our two expectations, hopes and dreams. As someone born and tested in this situation to act like it. I had had in life and how those who feel attraction to members of my family.
Forget what anyone else says or expects of you.